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My name is David Rodney Broughton. Born in the Lady Weigall Hospital in Barmera, South Australia on 31st August, 1947.


Lady Weigall Hospital years ago... not UFO

My father is David Broughton. (no middle name). Born 21st March 1923 in Eston (Grangetown) Ormesby, Yorkshire. County of York. England and whose parents were William Broughton and Margaret Ellis.

 

1993

My Mother's birth certificate states... Gwendolyn Josephine Dunstan, born on 17th June, 1929 in Broken Hill, NSW. Australia. (The date on which I met the love of my life, Dianne Parrott in 1989.... and on her sister's birthday too) 

But I knew my mother as Marie Turner at various times in my childhood which I believed was her "stage name" - as a nightclub singer and entertainer in Kings Cross of Sydney. Her Father was Cyril Montgomery Dunstan, though I believe Gwendolyn continued to be a Broughton.... for me; she had said.

My parents were married on May 27th, 1946 at the Church of Christ in Berri. New South Wales. Australia, where I suspect my mother had family.

My Mother and Father were very young when they married. Mother was 16 and my father 22. I was born a year later. They separated when I was around two and a half years old. I remember my baby sister scooting around on the bedroom floor.

My sister, Wendy, was born perhaps about a year later than me. My parents marriage was ended during the early 1950s, so I spent my childhood as I hoped my own child would not... away from parents.

I always remembered my mother as a very beautiful woman, particularly within. She had a huge warm smile and a feeling of love radiating from her, the memory of which has sustained me throughout my life.

She played the Hawaiian guitar and sang songs that had me transfixed at the smoothness and emotional beauty of her voice.

I have one very amateurish photograph of her which I took when I was 16. This is it. My Mudder. Does she look familiar? Remember... This photo was taken on a Kodak box camera at around 1965. I have had to do a lot of photo editing to make it useable. The original took a beating over the years.

missing since 1969

around 1966

She may be going under the name Gwendolyn Josephine Dunstan, Gwendolyn Josephine Broughton, Gwendolyn Maree Dunstan, Gwendolyn or Gwen Broughton, Marie Turner. She was known for some time as Maree (or Marie) Turner as she was a nightclub singer at the then Kellet Street Nightclub in Kings Cross of Sydney...

My father was handsome and had a character I never forgot. I looked up to him and thought he was a good man. He rode a motorbike with sidecar and "played the spoons". His sense of humour was an obvious and endearing personality characteristic.

He left me in the care of a small children's home in the Adelaide Hills for about a year where I remember I turned 4 years old and learned that "if you eat meat - you will go to the devil". I also learned how to turn the handle of a large milk separator machine. I was fascinated with the science of it.

Unfortunately I was not allowed to receive the present of a train with racks from my father for my 4th birthday. I was dumped in a water pond on the property where rubbish was tossed away.

Soon after that my father David took me to a home in Adelaide at 11 Smith Street, Walkerville where I remember a life very similar to those portrayed in the Boys Town movies starring Mickey Rooney.... and I attended the Walkerville School.

It was at the Walkerville home I last had contact with my father when I was about 6 or 7 years old at around Easter Time. He left me a chocolate Easter Egg and Bunny during the night. For some reason I woke in the dormitory - perhaps because I heard his voice that night. I remember it well as I sat up in my bed in the dead of night straining to listen to his words  at the front door, but being a child awakened from a sound sleep, I lay down again fell back to sleep... and perhaps from what I heard, I remember feeling sure I would never "see" him again.

I was dead right.

So I have been looking for my Father, Mother, Sister and any relatives for many years - over 55 of them in fact.

I have not seen my Sister since the day of her 5th birthday party somewhere around 1954-55 which may have been held in Bundaberg or perhaps Berri, at the home of my mothers sister I knew as Auntie Dulsie. Wendy was perhaps 1 or 1.5 years younger than me, and probably still is.

At the birthday party I disobeyed my mother who told me not to tell Wendy that I was her brother and that my mother was really her mother. By then, Wendy regarded Auntie Dulsie as her Mother.

I felt I had only this one chance to throw out a lifeline. I secretly told a disbelieving Wendy that I was indeed her brother and that one day I would find her... when I grow up...  Well I have been looking for my sister for over 30 years. With the Internet I hope to do a little better.

But women disappear in our society. Don't they? They get married and their identity is erased as they lovingly take on their husband's name as their own. I think it was a tradition in Europe for the woman's family name to be bracketed by her husband's name.  So my Dianne, if we married, would be known as Dianne Maree Parrott Broughton...... I used the word "bracketed"...... like it is a legal envelope; a security cloak; a claim upon each other - perhaps for progeny purposes.

While I was visiting Sydney down from Walcha (where I lived in the Ohio Boys Home) for the "Selection Board" into the Army, (I was 15 years of age in late 1962), I had an amazing experience.

Acting on a childhood memory, I did what the Child Welfare Department could not do. I found my Mother.... living in Surrey Street of Sydney's Kings Cross. Her life had been difficult.

She told me my father had re-married and had two sons.

the face of one who has had to learn many things

1993

My mother and I separated company in February 1965-6 over a typical teenage outburst of anger and protest that I have regretted to this day.

About a year later, I thought I recognised her getting into a taxi one morning while I was waiting at a bus stop in William Street, Kings Cross to go to work near the city (Sydney). The woman I was looking at was dressed in a most unusual way and she stood out in the crowd. All heads around me were turned in her direction as she appeared.

She caught site of me and seemed to want to recognise me, but I was not sure who she was and if it was me she was looking toward. In a moment I thought it was my mother, but was overwhelmed suddenly by a wave of embarrassment as I saw the way she was dressed and the state of her health. I became immediately afraid to be recognised by all those people around me as associated with this very strange looking person.

I just thought I would let the moment pass and see her again some other time anyway... as I thought I knew the place she may have been living from the direction she rushed from. It was where the above photo was shot sometime earlier.

But she climbed into a taxi so quickly, before I could process my thoughts, and it sped away in the traffic flow. I have never forgotten her facial expression as she threw her head back with a look of desperate-seeking on her face in my direction only to see a sea of faces of the large crowd. So suddenly the taxi disappearing down William Street. It was only then I realised what I had done and that it really was her and that I simply couldn't confront the situation. But when I began to reach out to wave, she was gone.

I felt myself become heavy as I stood there feeling like a total fool. I never saw her again and have hated myself for not dealing with that moment. It WAS one of the 'deciding moments' of the rest of my life..

 


2022

If any one can help me locate each of them or give me any suggestions or helpful, friendly, constructive advice, please phone me on
Landline:     61  02  4934 4881,
Mobile:          0466  942 506

You can email me at  - 

diarbe at gmail.com

(write the address properly with @ instead of "at")

Thank you.

David Rodney Broughton [Diarbe]
[
Avidday Oughtonbray] [Latin]

PS: And if you have tried to call me on the phone and was told I am not here.... please try again - and again, till you speak to ME. You may have been mistaken for a stranger.

 


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